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I like this piece very much - and would like to offer one step upstream, if I may, of knowledge gathered from three decades of living in a very conservative place.

No one wakes up in the morning and makes an idle decision to hate. Hate is rooted in fear, and fear is rooted in ignorance (meaning, fear in the sense of simply not knowing). As a people, as humans, we have to confront our fears because, as Jung knew, what we fear will control us until we face it, and it may destroy us (individually or collectively).

And the only antidote to ignorance is exposure and experience that lead to (relative) confidence and calm.

But for so many, fear keeps them bound to one place or opinion, and so the state of not-knowing leads to a persistent and deep anxiety. Years of living in a landlocked state largely unaffected by outside influences showed me the vicious cycle of cultural (little c) insulation: the more you fear, the more you protect yourself (and those oft-touted Loved Ones), and so the less you are exposed to, so ignorance (non-exposure) persists, which leads to further insulation.

Result: an insular, insulating and insulated society, convinced they are under siege, when in reality the twin shackles of fear and ignorance bind them to their fearful futures. It’s a brutal and violent self-made reality. But you’ll never convince the fearful otherwise.

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